Yesterday my girlfriend asked me?

its funny how the male abuser comes into Factor but not the fact that not only did she cheat on you but gave you and incurable disease ...yes im a woman and i believe you will be justified you can ice your swollen jaw but you can never get rid of a painful disease like herpes you will never have a normal life neither would she but she got it from someone she cheated with...people don't know how they would react to a situation unless they are in it the same people that shame what you wrote might react the same in the situation except they are women and believe its ok to hit because they are women so yea she gets a swollen jaw but you get a disease you never asked for and a broken heart,,and on top of that you will still feel bad for hitting a woman that gave you an incurable disease i don't condone any type of violence be it men or woman but to many woman think its ok to hit a man and not get hit or provoke a man bottom line if you hit her for nothing i would call you an abuser but if you were in the moment of hearing news like that i would give you a pass just being realistic...